BIOGRAPHY1994
Overview: The only release this year was the single In Your Room.
The last single release of the album was In Your Room on January 10.
Martin: "The worst memory about In Your Room is the making of
the video. We spent a whole day in the studio filming and I probably had
lunch at some point, but it was just something really small, like half a
sandwich. We finished filming at about 8 o'clock, and went back to the hotel
and I forgot to eat. We went to the bar and I didn't eat ... We went out to a
club[1], met some guy who gave me some stuff, so I was up all night until
probably 9 or 10 in the morning. We had a band meeting at 12 o'clock and I
managed to sleep for about an hour. Then I got up and I've never felt so
dreadful in my life. I managed to literally crawl to this meeting, I had to
lay on the floor just saying 'Yes' or 'No', that was all I could muster.[2]
And that was when I went into a seizure. So whenever I see this video, I just
think, 'Oh, God' ... It brings back terrible memories.[3]"
As indicated in the articles of 1993 Martin had some
more seizures on tour as well as panic attacks.
By the way, the video to In Your Room wasn't broadcasted
by MTV America because of its BDSM reference, and Anton Corbijn cut in
scenes from former videos because he thought it might be the last
video with David.
Alan: "We would usually reach a consensus to form a short-list of potential singles. For example, Higher Love was on this list for the SOFAD singles but never made it and there were differences of opinion about in which order they should appear. Dave felt very strongly that Condemnation should have been the first single but he was out-voted. I wanted Walking In My Shoes as a second single and got my way but I really wanted the original version of In Your Room [instead of the version that was used]. This is all a good example of the problems of democracy - somebody usually ends up disappointed."[4]
(In Your Room - with friendly permission of © Wojciech Welc)
On February 9 the next leg followed, this time called "Exotic-Tour".
Till April 19 the band played 28 concerts in South Africa, Australia,
Asia as well as Latin- and Southamerica.
Fletch: "That trip to South Africa was very memorable for us. We had all
of our rehearsals in Cape Town and were in the country for six weeks."[5]
In February Alan's wardrobe was stolen:
"Considering the building was securely locked and patrolled by guards, we
concluded that it must have been an 'inside job'. I lost about £10,000 worth of
clothing, some very personal bits and pieces and of course most of my stage
outfits which had to be re-made."
He himself had to have kidney stones removed operatively in the same month.
There were different opinions about a second US-leg, what brought in an
additional tension. To those, who were pro this additional leg, also belonged
Alan: "The second leg should take in outdoor venues (sheds) which
attract a summer
crowd and are very different to the indoor arena shows. Actually, Dave also
wanted to do another leg and the others didn't object at the time."
According to the later contrariwise statement that he had no mind
to tour anymore he said: "I didn't
think about it being the last time touring for me as I didn't decide to leave the
band until 18 months later."[6]
(True but he also said that he had begun thinking about leaving the band during
the recording of SOFAD ...)
Allegedly David and Alan told Martin that they couldn't bear Fletch's depressions
anymore.
Martin: "It was very difficult. Andy's been my closest friend since we
were twelve. But, for the others, he'd become unbearable. I justified it by
thinking that it would be better for him if he went home and got professional
advice."
But Fletch also wanted to go home, had enough of the tour.
In March was decided that Fletch would leave the tour
and that he would be replaced on stage by the long-termed
friend and companion of the band, Daryl Bamonte.
Fletch: "With the targets, the deadlines, the partying, the excess,
I just lost it. I had an obsessive-compulsive disorder which made me displace
this stress into worries about bodily symptoms. This sounds terrible, but I
thought I had a brain tumour. I couldn't sleep. I couldn't think, this
headache wouldn't go away. I had tests. It wasn't a brain tumour, it was a
breakdown."[7]
Allegedly Fletch should have left the tour, saying he would never go on tour
with Alan again. It's not known to what he referred. Maybe it was because
of his disease and he found especially Alan unbearable - or it was because
of an incident that hasn't been mentioned in any interview or
biography so far.
Alan's later statement that "there are things that better never come to
day-light" according to Malins' biography, that he called "quite entertaining"
deridingly, might refer to exactly those arguments and things.
(By the way although many fans think this - Malins' biography is NOT authorized
and I even doubt that he talked to anyone else than Alan (who sometimes felt
quoted in a wrong way); otherwise he would have used quotations you can't find
in other interviews as well. This is no bitching, Mr Malins wrote a very good
and overall accurate book and he never claimed it was authorized, he just
mentioned e-mails and faxes in his preface reface what suggested a participation
of the band. According to my experiences I guess his work was quite difficult
and for this he did a good job.)
The others still further lied. So David responded
to the question how the band members are: "Really good."
Some demands were necessary before he explained that, "Andy will not be
playing with us for the rest of the tour. He's in New York at the moment.
He's not been feeling well and his wife's about to have their second baby
and he's got to sort some stuff out so he won't be doing it.[8]
Being away from the people you want to be with for a long while probably
had a lot to do with Fletch's feelings."[9]
(Fletch's and Grainne's son Joseph was born on June 22.)
Alan: "While everyone else was sunning themselves on the beach and
enjoying a well-earned rest, Daryl and I spent a week cooped up in a hotel
room in Hawaii where I taught him the entire set. He subsequently played it
perfectly for the rest of the tour - pretty good eh, considering he'd hardly
ever played a keyboard before in his life."[10] (One could see this as a
mocking remark at Fletch ...)
So on May 12 the last leg of the tour started in Sacramento
- without Fletch. All together 34 concerts were played.
It is said that the relationships got worse and worse and
that meetings ended in
scuffles (although the exact reasons are unknown).
According to rumours David, being totally stoned,
should have bitten a journalist into the neck. There
were separate limousines, separate hotel floors.
Martin: "That was a practical necessity in case individual band members
threw raucous parties[11]" - like the Berlin aftershow, which ended with a police
raid and a permanent ban from the Intercontinental hotel. - "We lost the plot. But
it's really difficult for us, at our level, to just decide to do a few key
dates around the world. I think those extra 30 to 40 gigs were the straw
that broke the camel's back." (laughs)
Fletch: "The intensity of the partying had gone to a new stage. It had
just been steadily getting worse and worse and worse and worse, until on that
tour in particular it was just one huge party. Every night. Martin says he
only went to bed early one time on the whole tour."
Martin: "About 12. You don't get offstage usually 'til 10.30, 11, so
to get to bed by 12 you've really achieved something there."[12]
Alan: "What people have heard about that tour is all pretty much true.
Everyone was indulging in their own thing, sometimes with destructive results
but it's all part of the private way you deal with such a bizarre and unreal
world. Of course, everybody was concerned about Dave's welfare but addicts are
notoriously difficult to dissuade from their cause unless they themselves
really want to change. At the time Dave wasn't in that frame of mind and
therefore any advice given to him fell on deaf ears. In spite of all these
things, there were loads of good moments too. Not only was it the most
successful tour with some of the best shows we'd ever played, but personally,
I can't see what all the fuss is about - I had a great time.
The myth that has been building up around the second U.S. leg of the Devotional
tour seems to be now fully out of control. It wasn't really any more 'rock 'n' roll'
than any other DM tour over the years - everyone had their own little 'on tour'
world which existed alongside a fully professionally run live show."[13]
(IF - Is simplicity best or simply the easiest ... Mit freundlicher Genehmigung von © Laura Bâlc)
It seems that David also had a lot of fun nevertheless: "What we
discovered was that we enjoyed playing together this time more than any
other time before. We pulled everything together and decided not to be so
separated on the stage. We wanted to get rid of some of the theatrics and be
less of a big, swamping show. I think now at the moment we're having a lot
of fun. I think we've been having more fun on stage this time then we've ever
had before. Everything seems a lot more organic and a lot more powerful."[14]
I don't think that this was just a phrase. I think Devotional really had two
faces - the debauchery and the suffering on one side, the great and professional
show on the other side which the band members (and the fans) really enjoyed.
Over the course of time David more and more offered a picture of
misery when he danced or more staggered over the stage,
stoned and just being skin and bones. But when you listen to bootlegs of that
time the concerts where nevertheless amazing. Some people say that David's
voice suffered from the drug consumption more and more, but I don't agree that
it was really weak or broken. The set of the Exotic Tour was very dynamic
and full of energy, with a lot of amazing, dynamic live versions.
On July 18, 1994 the insanity had an end.
(What the tour concerned.) Whether David fell off the
stage or wanted to do stage diving is unclear, anyway
he crashed against the barrier during the encore and broke
two ribs and suffered internal bleedings. He was so stoned and drunk that it
lasted 24 hours until he got aware of what had happened. He was told to stay
in the hospital for a couple of days but he didn't want to. Instead he and
Theresa rented a little hut at Tahoe Lake in California.
It's almost funny that this happened at the last planned concert
so no gig had to be cancelled because of that.
It's not known if the rest of the band was really aware of what had
happened to David. They enjoyed themselves with some last-gig-pranks -
Alan: "Jez Webb - the guitar tech. - emerged, to my surprise,
from the shell of the piano during Somebody. Another favourite was
when someone dressed as a cleaner came on stage and started sweeping the floor
- during a dramatic point in the show."
- and had "an end of tour party at St. Andrew's Hall in Detroit that was pretty
much on a par with the reputation the band had acquired (at least all the
standard Depeche Mode requirements were met - scantily-glad girls, erotic dancers,
Martin dressed as a woman)."[15][16]
About the reasons how it could come to this exaggerated excess
(and especially to the breaking of the relationships) you find
very less in the statements of the band members. "We overdid it and couldn't
stop it" or "a rockband isn't a churchchoir" is all.
Many fans also see it as "a normal part of the music business and it
had been part of the zeitgeist". "It was absolutely hip to
overdose. It was the Grunge-era, absolute nihilism was hip." And really, you
have to see that Grunge didn't mean pain, suffering, drugs and being close to
death. It didn't mean to die for your art. When these bands entered a stage
then they only had one thing in mind: fun. Maybe a very egoistic and destroying
way of fun - but fun.
But most fans see the success as the reason why things got beyond the band, that
they hadn't know what to do after the great success of Violator (or even
after 101).
Well, I think there must have been some other things as well to lose one's
footing momentarily, also for a rock musician - a person with an extreme
job, extraordinary lifestyle and the permanent temptation of alcohol and
drugs. Especially David shows today that you are able to do this job
without being an alcoholic or a junkie. And the "boys" weren't in the
beginning of the twenties anymore but familymen around their thirties, an
age you would guess they were "mature and grown up".
So "I did it because everyone did it" would be a cheap alibi. Not only
David wanted to "lead
this egoistic lifestyle", the others wanted it, too. If not so one would
have stopped it. I think Fletch had tried to but it was difficult for him
because of his disease. In the end two people left: Alan and Martin. What
kind of "alibi" do they have?
Alan surprisingly said that he had had his fun.
Although he didn't look like if he had. On pictures and videos
he often looked morosely
and peeved. So what? Was it that awful that he finally had enough and left the
band or did he have his fun? However - at least some fans assume that private
problems could have make things
worse, a "close to the 30s crises", no backhold in the family or real
friends, no team spirit within the band, a lack of communication - or as one fan
said: "they maybe hoped to forget their personal problems on tour but it went
'Wrong'."
(Try walking in my shoes - with friendly permission of © Alatryste - Alatryste on Facebook)
Martin (according to the question how long it took until he
found his way back to everyday life after Devotional):
"I actually think it didn't take me very long. I got into some very bad
habits on that tour. I was taking sleeping tablets every day and when I got
home from the tour I still had a couple left and so it gave me a few days
of good sleep ... sleep is a key to happiness." (laughs) "After that I ran
out of those tablets and I was totally back to normal."[17]
David: "I didn't. I was functioning only with the use of drugs,
without them I couldn't even move. I came back from the tour and I wasn't
playing music and singing anymore but I really threw myself into using drugs."[18]
Fletch: "I was just so emotionally knackered after the tour and that's
why I didn't do the last American leg. I think we just set ourselves too much
of a target and I think we all suffered in different ways."[19]
And to the question whether they had kept their contact:
Martin: "Because Dave went back to America we didn't see him very
often and we didn't speak on the phone very much, maybe not as much as we
should have. We didn't speak to Alan at all even though he was living in
London which we felt was quite strange and we were totally prepared for his
decision to leave the band. We actually predicted that months and months
before it happened. Andy I see all the time because we have the same group
of friends and so if I'm in London I'm almost bound to bump into Andy at
some point."[20]
David: "Not really. But no-one is to blame really, because the phone
rings both ways. The only time that I heard anything from anyone was really
if I was kind of hurting myself and it got in the press. Then I got a call
from somebody, usually Martin or I'd call him. I got a call from Alan at
one point when he decided he wanted to leave. But I didn't really react in
any way to that because I was deeply into using drugs by then."[21]
While Martin got married to Suzanne in August, Alan broke up with his wife
Jeri and went on holiday with his new partner Hepzibah
in beginning of September and was almost killed.
Alan: "I was in a remote part of Scotland driving on the A85 just
beyond Lochearnhead. As I approached a sharp bend in the road, the sound of
an RAF Tornado appeared behind me and as I looked up, I saw the underside
of the aircraft above me. Within a split second to my complete astonishment,
the plane had crashed beside the road into the Glen. As I swerved off the
road onto a farm track, I heard the sound of the impact and witnessed an
enormous explosion from which the smoke and debris almost engulfed me. At
the same time, particles of carbon etc. began to 'rain' down onto the open-top
car. Beyond the bend I witnessed the road full of the wreckage of the aircraft
and the parts of dead airmen's bodies which were clearly visible in the road.
After the police arrived I decided to leave the scene; there was nothing further
to do. It was only at this point that I realised what an incredible escape
I'd had. I would have surely been killed or worse, severely maimed, had I been
10 seconds further into my journey."[22]
Later he admitted that he still has nightmares because of this. "The thing that
struck me was that such an instantaneous tragedy is immediately followed by
the banality of continuing life. As two dead airmen were splattered across
the road, the sun shone, the birds sang and no music played."[23]
He wrote the song Black Box, which was published
on the album Liquid in 2000, about this topic.
Meanwhile David lost more and more control: "After the tour ended, I
spent a few months in London and that's when my habit got completely out of
hand. In fact, Teresa decided that she wanted to have a baby and I said to
her, Teresa, we're junkies. Let's not kid ourselves, when you're a junkie,
you can't s***, p***, c*** ... nothing. All these bodily functions go. You're
in this soulless body, you're in a shell. But she didn't get it. And in
L.A. I was so fucking paranoid, I carried a .38 at all times. I was scared
of everything and everyone. I thought they were coming to get me. Whoever 'they'
were. That was when I started toying with the idea of going out on a big one.
Just shoot the big speedball to heaven. Disappear. Stop. I wanted to stop
being myself, I wanted to stop living in this body. I hated myself that much,
what I'd done to myself and everyone around me."
Finally his former wife Jo stopped the visits of their common son.
"Usually, when Jack came out to visit me I'd been able to stop fixing for a
while and keep it together. But it came to a point where I was so sick I rang
my mother in England and said, 'Mum, Jack's due here in a couple of days and
I've got terrible flu. I can't cope on my own, can you come over?' She came
and I tried to do the whole thing - get up in the morning, make him his
little egg, tried to be the dad."
Of course he took drugs again and overdosed one night. When he woke up, his
mother and his son were in the kitchen – and his stuff was gone.
"I said, 'What did you do with my stuff, mum?'' She said, 'I threw it in the
rubbish outside.' I ran out the door and brought in six black bags. If you
can picture this insanity, I'm with my son and my mother and I brought in six
bags, five of which were my neighbours' and emptied them out on the kitchen
floor. I was on my hands and knees going through other people's garbage until
I found what I needed."
Now he couldn't deny it anymore. His mother rang up Joanne, who came and picked
Jack up. Around Christmas he went into rehab for the first time.
"When I came out, Teresa met me. We went to get some lunch and she said,
'I'm not gonna stop drinking or using drugs just because you have to.
I'll do whatever I want to do.'' At that point, I knew our relationship would
have to be over if I was gonna have any chance. I'd thought we loved each
other. Now I think the love was pretty one-sided. Actually, she soon left
me to get her life together, as she put it. She always used to say to me,
'It's all about you, Dave - if only you could love yourself.' Well, that's
come full circle now, because she's suing me for a ridiculous amount of
money, claiming I'm responsible for her life."[24]
He soon slipped back into old habits. "I was then give the excuse to go out
and get even more f*** up. My wife had left me, friends were disappearing
and so I was left surrounded by a bunch of junkies. And I knew exactly
what was going on - y'know, I had the money, I had the drugs and that's
why they were around. I knew it, and that fuelled my anger even more.
I didn't know whether I wanted to get clean. It was becoming very apparent
that the party was gonna be over pretty soon. I was either gonna die or I
was gonna get sober."[25]
References:
[1] The Singles 86-98 by Martin Gore, Bong 37, September 1998. Compiled by Michaela Olexova
[2] Just Can't Get Enough, Uncut, May 2001. Words: Stephen Dalton
[3] The Singles 86-98 by Martin Gore, Bong 37, September 1998. Compiled by Michaela Olexova
[4] recoil.co.uk
[5] Masters Of Their Universe, The Times, 3rd May, 2009, author unknown
[6] recoil.co.uk
[7] They Just Couldn't get Enough, Q, March 1997. Words: Phil Sutcliffe
[8] Modern Rock Live, May 10, 1994, a radioshow, DJ: Tom Calderone
[9] Future Unknown, L.A. Daily News, 21st May 1994. Words: Mark Brown
[10] recoil.co.uk
[11] Just Can't Get Enough, Uncut, May 2001. Words: Stephen Dalton
[12] Synth and Sensibilities, NME, 25th January 1997. Words: Keith Cameron
[13] recoil.co.uk
[14] recoil.co.uk
[15] Modern Rock Live, May 10, 1994, a radioshow, DJ: Tom Calderone
[16] Some dates and information about events on tour were taken from: Devotional Diary III, Bong 24, March 1995. Words: Daryl Bamonte
[17] Catching up with ... Martin, Bong 30, December 1996
[18] Catching up with ... Dave, Bong 30, December 1996
[19] Catching up with ... Fletch, Bong 30, December 1996
[20] Catching up with ... Martin, Bong 30, December 1996
[21] Catching up with ... Dave, Bong 30, December 1996
[22] Near Miss, Bong 22, September 1994. Words: Alan Wilder
[23] Just Can't Get Enough, Uncut, May 2001. Words: Stephen Dalton
[24] Tears of my Tracks, Q, March 1997. Words: Phil Sutcliffe
[25] Dead Man Talking, NME, 18th January 1997. Words: Keith Cameron
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